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The t-shirt (first manufactured in 1898) has been the bedrock of modern man’s look. But in the age of digitalization, where nostalgia, street style, and fast access reign supreme, men’s vintage t-shirts have become highly prized. The best vintage tees are snapped up by the savvy. But you don’t have to visit every vintage store within a hundred-mile radius or surf through masses of vintage t-shirts online to get a slice of the vintage pie (ew). You just have to acquaint yourself with the ins and outs of shopping vintage, or read our choice *kisses thumb and forefinger together* selections in this article.

First things first. Visit your local vintage store to find the best vintage t-shirts. Keep the community thriving and get to know the people; the real world is always better than the digital.

There are literally hundreds of online retailers. But just like the clothes rail sitting on the computer, scrolling through endless pictures of t-shirts can get exhausting (trust me, I do it for a living).

So how about we ease the burden a little, hey? Why don’t you put your feet up and let us point out the best vintage t-shirts in the most salient categories? That way, you’ll emerge with vintage tees without so much as a pleasant read and a few quick clicks to victory. Read on, my friendly vintage friends, read on.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: Black | Sizes Available: XS-XL |

Rhuigi Villaseñor has brought about a unique marriage of streetwear and luxury to the fashion industry. This is obvious in the ingenious logo design at play. It has an eighties edge that drips with panache, like the logo of an eighties metal band or an Italian sportscar.

Of course, it is none of those things. This antique hotel sign design tee comes with drop shoulders and a square-like fit which references the current style. Style this with loose denim jeans, ice-cold shades, and Converse.

Material: 100% Organic Cotton | Colors available: Multi  | Sizes Available: XS-XXL

Corridor NYC is a miniature factory of stylish things. This is one of their 70s-inspired vintage tees, which bubbles up visions of large hair and flares but in a clipped and restrained way.

Pair with mid-wash loose jeans, or if you’re feeling groovy, some green or brown corduroy trousers. This piece is also recommended due to its using organic cotton. Good for the planet. Good for your wardrobe.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: Black | Sizes Available: XS-XXL |

Lemmy with the legendary ‘tash. He was the lead singer of UK hard rock band Motörhead (got a lot of time for the use of the German umlaut), formed in 1975. Known for their classic “Ace of Spades” tune, there’s a little spades emblem at the back of the t-shirt, in homage to that rock ‘n roll classic.

The front graphic depicts a part-wolf, part-bear creature called “snaggletooth,” which was the band’s logo of choice. With Lemmy’s vintage tees, you can embody the evil snare of the snaggletooth. Terrifying.

Material: 100% Ring Spun Cotton | Colors available: White | Sizes Available: S-XXXL |

Not so much vintage as the modern and official fashion brand arm of a rock band with some of the world’s most recognizable graphics ever designed. The Rolling Stones, ever heard of them? These loonies legends have been around since the 60s and are still going to this day.

That makes the best vintage t-shirt remasters somewhat analogous to the cultural position of the band itself. They are both vintage and contemporary at the same time. Clever, huh?

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: White, Black | Sizes Available: XS-XL |

You must, I repeat, must have a vintage Tupac Shakur t-shirt in your closet. The man is endlessly mythologized because of his suspicious early demise around the Notorious B. I. G. rivalry and saga; his lyrics ooze with talent and literary craft; his songs are powerful and emotive.

That’s why his face and presence make for one of the best vintage t-shirts. Coming to think of it, the black long-sleeved t-shirt version is the only way you should have a Tupac tee.

To style this, we’re turning to our old friend—the loose-fit jeans. Also, try it with a large parka jacket to be street-style winter-ready. Long live Makaveli. Long live his vintage tees.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: White | Sizes Available: S-XXL |

Johnny Cash was an imperious figure in the country scene from the 50s, maintaining it right up to his death in 2003. The “Ring of Fire” is a fantastic tune, as is the re-write of Nine Inch Nail’s track, “Hurt.”

He also has one of the coolest names to put on the front of men’s vintage t-shirts. Call me a music critic, but his success and his cool name can’t just be a coincidence. That is how you sell records, people. If he was around in this day and age, he could have called himself Johnny Ca$h and pivoted to rap. Oh well. Wear a bit of country music heritage on your chest with this classic tee.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: Cream, Black | Sizes Available: XS-XXL

Champion has the best vintage t-shirts in the collegiate/varsity style. Don’t believe us? Just have a quick run through their “back to uni” roster. No, this doesn’t shout out, “I WENT TO [Insert College], RESPECT ME AND MAKE ME RICH” from its chest like other collegiate tees.

But it is cooler, respectful, and more peaceful. Like the recently retired tennis player Federer, a real champion does play the sport with vigor and grace but is graceful in defeat too. I do wonder what that’s like…

Pair this with dark indigo jeans. But, hey, let’s say you’re just chillin’ with the boiz? Well then, black, white, or gray trackies are all excellent choices, sir.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: White | Sizes Available: S-XXL |

Did you, like me, saw this t-shirt and thought: “yeaasss!” remembering Toy Story? Then you, like me, are the chosen demographic for this graphic. While the imagery of Pizza Planet is still etched into my five-year-old brain, after some frantic Googling, I rediscovered this is where they encounter the evil teenager, Sid, who picks them out of the arcade with a claw. It’s at this point it gets perilous for Buzz and Woody. Damn, I should probably watch this bonafide classic again.

By referencing an iconic location in an iconic film, the t-shirt becomes more layered than just a regular Toy Story t-shirt. It becomes cooler, in a geeky way, of course. If this doesn’t tickle your graphic tee pickle, I’m not sure what will.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: Black | Sizes Available: S-XXL |

There are few things more eighties other than Atari. There are also few logos or works of graphic design that are as iconically eighties as the Atari logo. It’s just three simple lines. That’s all it is.

And yet, everyone who has forgotten Atari knows the logo. That is how transcendent and powerful the graphic is. This is precisely why wearing this vintage logo in black and white contrast on the chest of your shirt makes it one of the best vintage t-shirts. You are evoking the eighties, the birth of gaming and timeless design.

Material: 100% Polyester Blend | Colors available: Red, Green | Sizes Available: XS-XXXL |

If there has been one brand that harnessed nostalgia or the power of vintage and funneled these emotions so perfectly through a modern lens, it’s Gucci. Vintage Adidas is a whole other gem in and of itself, so when these two brand powerhouses combine, it becomes a multi-layered cheesecake of fashion delight.

The saturated red of this t-shirt doesn’t care for no one. No. Neither do the sharp contrast Adidas three-stripes and the Gucci green and red arm hems. This is an example of the best vintage t-shirts at their most refined.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: Black | Sizes Available: S, M |

The smiley is a symbol of the 90s Acid House raves. It was emblazoned on the little pills of ecstasy that created the headspace of eternal love and endless dancing. Is the sideways smile on this Readymade t-shirt a warning that taking too much can have disturbing results? Hm.

This oversized, boxy t-shirt draws good vibes through its minimalist design and is a subtle nod to the hard, fast, and loving 90s. Here’s to all of that.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: Off-White, Navy, Khaki | Sizes Available: S-XL

One of the most endlessly rewarding sub-genres of the best vintage t-shirts is… vintage sports t-shirts. Sports clothing back in the day was simple, strong, and evocative. This polo tee follows suit perfectly.

Nigel Cabourn is a British fashion designer known for his rugged outerwear and vintage-shop sportswear themes. And who better to team up with for a sports kit than the vintage-saturated brand Umbro?

90s Umbro was the absolute *flame emoji* of football kits. Although, the whole of the 90s and early 00s was quite a special time for that. Anyway, reveling in the nostalgia is what this zip-up polo t-shirt does best, but it does so with a lot more class and taste.

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Honor the gods of rock n roll (can you tell I’m a fan?) with this stylish black t-shirt by Urban Outfitters. The “Over Europe 1980” tour was hugely significant for the band because it was their last ever. They played at nine venues in West Germany, plus Brussels, Rotterdam, Zurich, and Vienna.

The tour hadn’t gone entirely smooth. One night Jimmy Page (lead guitarist) was struck in the face with a firecracker. Another night, Jon Bonham (drummer) collapsed onstage and was rushed to hospital. But the punk movement revitalized the band and was excited to get going again when tragically, Bonham died during rehearsals for their US leg.

Style-wise, this is one of the best vintage t-shirts going, and it’s also a small but humble testament to all that once was.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: Black | Sizes Available: S-XL |

The Urban Outfitter’s Urban Renewal program is dedicated to providing top-quality vintage tees. They put in the time and effort to secure a steady supply of the best vintage t-shirts around the world. That’s why you pay a premium for it. This very simple black Polo Ralph Lauren t-shirt with a nice red logo will pack a punch when worn oversized. It was born to be draped off the shoulders nonchalantly.

You might like this oversized tee so much that all you want in your wardrobe now are oversized tees.

Material: 100% Cotton | Colors available: Bone | Sizes Available: XS-XL |

One style of vintage motorcycle tee out there features great big Harleys, scantily clad ladies, and men with bushy beards. Then there’s the other, tattier kind that has a picture of a motorbike and a guy, captioned by things like “Sure, I talk to myself. I’m the smartest person I know.”

We’re not here for either of them. We’re here for the tasteful and perfect aesthetic harmony of Triumph and Lola Blackheart. Blackheart’s work references pin-up and the vintage styles of the early 20th century, all done in a tattoo-ink style. Lola and Triumph have created a contemporary men’s vintage t-shirt with artistic integrity.

What To Look For When Searching For The Best Vintage T-Shirts For Men

Material

The material will generally be polyester or 100% cotton. It’s rare to find anything different that’s genuinely a vintage product. When buying older clothing it’s worth checking the wear and tear on it. If it’s had a hard life, it’ll be sheer, or too pilled, and generally looking on its last legs, so just pay close attention to the condition.

Style

A vintage t-shirt is mostly about style. The unique, one-off, nostalgic piece of history that’ll be yours to wear and cherish and show off. This should be the priority of your choice. Because if you love the style, you will tend to wear it more often. Then, you can begin to investigate other facets of choosing a men’s vintage t-shirt after your aesthetic choice has been made.

Fit

As the Ancient Chinese proverb goes: you do you, hun. Get a skinny, medium, or baggy fit. Generally, a vintage t-shirt lends itself to a baggier style because it sits within the realm of current styles. Do consider the armpits and where the shoulder finishes. Tight armpits are super uncomfortable, and draped shoulders sometimes make it difficult to wear with layers.

Final Verdict 

The best vintage t-shirts for men should be effortlessly cool and should feel like it resonates from an age gone by in a rose-tinted glasses kind of way. Pure nostalgia. It should also be in good condition too (which is where buying new t-shirts in retro styles comes into its own). That’s why we chose the Rhude t-shirt as our all-around favorite.

Hello, darlings! Gracie Opulanza here, your guide to all things opulent and luxurious in fashion. Today, let’s stride into a topic that’s as tall as the heels we’re discussing—men rocking high heels. That’s right, boys in bold pumps are not just a runway anomaly but a fascinating fusion of fashion and history, seasoned with a dash of rebellion.

From Battlefields to Runways: A Historical Catwalk

Believe it or not, high heels didn’t start in the glamorous wardrobes of Hollywood divas but rather in the dusty war zones of the 10th century. Persian soldiers were the original trendsetters, elevating their stature to stabilize themselves while shooting arrows on horseback. Imagine that—heels as combat gear! This masculine origin of high heels paints a starkly different picture from the delicate accessory associated with femininity today.

As we sashay through time to the 17th century, heels had become a symbol of high social status and military prowess among European aristocrats. Picture King Louis XIV, not just as a monarch, but as a style icon who legislated that only nobility could don high heels—talk about exclusive fashion! His heels weren’t just high; they were statements painted in bold red to broadcast power and privilege. Step aside, Christian Louboutin, the Sun King did it first!

Why Men Ditched the Heel

Fast forward to the 18th century, when practicality began to overshadow opulence in men’s fashion—a movement known as the Great Male Renunciation. Men traded their flamboyant heels for more sober, practical footwear. It wasn’t just a change in fashion but a shift in societal values, prioritizing rationality over extravagance.

 

So, What’s the Point?

Is it all for a laugh? Perhaps sometimes. But it’s also a sign of men becoming more in touch with their style and breaking free from the mold. Fashion is, after all, a playground for the bold. And in this modern era, why shouldn’t men reclaim a piece of their own history?

As I watch this trend from the front rows of fashion weeks, decked in my own fabulous heels, I can’t help but applaud the courage. It takes guts to defy norms and express oneself with such visible, striking choices.

So, gentlemen, if you feel the urge to slip into a pair of high heels, remember it’s not just a statement of fashion but a step back into your history. You’re not just wearing a shoe; you’re wearing a story, a legacy of power, rebellion, and now, inclusivity.

Laugh if you will, but also think—heels are more than just an accessory; they’re an artifact of change. So go ahead, elevate your style and perhaps, just perhaps, your perspective too.

Stay fabulous, Gracie

1970,s ACDC band wearing platforms.

Colour has long been a contentious subject in menswear. While some guys pride themselves on broaching the punchier realms of the colour wheel, most are content to keep things low-key.

But while blink-and-miss-’em colours like black, white, grey and beige have always been a mainstay in the minimalist wardrobe, in recent years they’ve been thrust into the limelight.

So what does that mean for your wardrobe? Well, neutrals are no longer the supporting act – they’re taking centre stage. And while you might be accustomed to reaching for a white tee here and a pair of beige chinos there when the weather hots up, throw another neutral hue into the mix and it’s a trickier ball game. Do you pair up the same shade and risk looking like a nineties boyband member? Or do you throw on two different tones and hope for the best?

Helpfully, we’ve done the hard yards for you, decoding the easiest routes to neutral dressing. Because with this trend, there’s no sitting on the fence.

What Are Neutrals?

Don’t be fooled into thinking neutrals are just shades of off-white. “A neutral colour is any ‘non-colour’ i.e. any colour that doesn’t appear on the traditional colour wheel, including black, grey, white and earth tones like beige and khaki,” explains celebrity stylist Sarah Ann Murray, who has dressed the likes of Jonah Hill, Samuel L. Jackson and Charlie Rowe.

In practice, the term ‘neutrals’ also refers to a series of colours that work together, even when thrown together in the dark (a real possibility in the winter months.) For this reason, sticking to these shades makes building a capsule wardrobe a cakewalk, providing the perfect foundation of which to add layers or pops of colour.

“In terms of accessibility, a neutral palette will always offer an appropriate style option for any occasion, any time of year, and there’s always a neutral shade and combination to suit everyone,” adds Murray. “Plus, if you’re shopping on a budget, these hues have an ability to elevate a look, as even on inexpensive materials they generally give off the look of natural fabrics which are usually pricier.”

6 Easy Ways To Wear Neutrals

All-Black

No longer the preserve of maladjusted teens and funeral attire, the unsung hero of every man’s wardrobe is his all-black ensemble – it’s slimming, requires very little thought and can be tweaked to suit every season.

To make an entry-level move into darker territory, take your cue from rock’s leading men by slipping a leather jacket over a pair of slim-fit jeans and dark grey crew neck tee. Once you’ve got the basics down, you can start switching out items for something more adventurous such as black joggers or a suede bomber.

All-black-errthang isn’t just for off-duty occasions, though. It’s also possible to create smarter looks without looking like you’re auditioning for a Matrix remake. Start by pairing a black dress shirt with a black suit, or a black Oxford shirt with a charcoal suit. If the void of darkness proves too much, add pattern into the mix to lend your look some contrast.

Neutral Tailoring

Many use the word ‘beige’ as a synonym for boring, but when put across some sharply-cut tailoring, it’s a far cry from flat. Growing weary of your well-worn navy suit? Beige, then – haters be damned – is the antidote.

Flying in the face of the tedium its name suggests, beige is actually a pretty ‘busy’ colour. Which means you’ll be attracting enough attention without going overdrive elsewhere. Steer well clear of loud ties and pocket squares (try complementary solid colour styles in blue, burgundy and darker shades of grey) and err conservative with classic dress shoes for a grounding base.

If you’re interested in injecting your suit fabric with some character, linen is a texture-rich choice and makes for a stellar summer wedding suit, too. Alternatively, try corduroy in the winter. Or, for something year-round, it’s hard to go wrong with cotton.

Light Neutral Separates

Tailoring today isn’t what it used to be. Over the past decade, tailored separates have come over all casual, slowly but surely edging away from the image of the monocled, moustachioed dandy.

So, if you’re into the idea of paler tailoring but have more of a streetwear thing going on, dial down the formality by swapping the shirt for a crew neck tee, the brogues for trainers, and trying your hand at tonal looks by mixing chinos, trousers and blazers in colours like tan, white and beige.

Limit the tonal approach to two items, though, keeping one piece out of the light neutral spectrum. You’re going for clean and minimal, not earthy Home Depot paint chart.

Earth Tones

If monochrome was menswear’s first all-neutrals obsession, earth tones are its second. From muted moss to khaki, sand to russet, this colour palette is arguably one of the most versatile out there.

Thanks to their muted appearance, lighter shades of brown, green and orange are great for layering once the weather gets cooler. They’ll warm up your skin tone long after your summer tan fades, and sit right in that smart-casual sweet spot, making them a go-to for everything from the office to a Kanye-inspired night-out ensemble.

For a take that’s less desert rat, mix in some richer colours like burnt orange, mustard and shades of blue. Try teaming an olive green or brown lightweight cardigan with a navy blazer for a contemporary alternative to a three-piece suit. Alternatively, a chambray shirt worn with oatmeal-coloured trousers and a field jacket is the perfect go-to casual look.

All-White

One of the more advanced moves from the menswear playbook, there are several things to consider when wearing all-white if you are to look less Don Johnson more Riviera don.

Keep your white-out looks on point by not only switching up fabric textures, but colours too. Introducing shades of ivory and cream into the mix not only prevents you looking washed out but also not like a P Diddy impersonator.

Try teaming up a pair of white cotton trousers with a cream polo, long-sleeved tee or knitted T-shirt for a solid weekend look that’ll easily see you from day to night. Just remember, this look requires a healthy dose of confidence, a skin tone at least a few shades darker than fair and deep pockets for those inevitable dry cleaning bills.

Neutrals With A Contrast Colour

Using light neutrals for the base of your outfit and adding a contrasting hue such as orange can help insipid shades pop and stop a look from blending into the background.

The trick here is still making sure the outfit goes together, which is best achieved by opting for soft tones. For example, a sage green coach jacket is a resounding yes, whereas a shiny, ’80s-esque puffer jacket in neon lime is a no.

Feeling apprehensive? Dip your toe (literally) in this method by using your shoes to work in a slightly punchier shade. Level-up the minimalist sneaker with a pair rendered in soft pink suede.

6 Key Pieces To By In A Neutral Colour

White Jeans

White jeans are fashion Marmite, mostly due to the fact that they could miscast you as a Eurotrash weirdo. But with the right styling, it’s possible to come off more American Ivy League than Ibiza weekend warrior. Swap boyband rips and manhood-comprising skinny fits for a timeless slim fit, then simply ditch the socks and get your mankles out. Just take care that your pin-roll is on-point.

Brown Outerwear

It’s a bolder statement than Kanye saying his latest album is the greatest ever made, but we’ll go out on a limb to say that neutrals are the new black. This is particularly true in the case of outerwear, when inky shades can feel funereal. Instead, arm yourself with that new menswear classic, the camel coat, as well as a chocolate suede jacket brown leather bomber.

Grey Trousers

No well-edited wardrobe is complete without a pair of grey trousers, whether they’re swiped from a suit or a standalone pair that skews more casual. One of their most redeeming features is that they afford you the opportunity to get experimental with the colour of your footwear, so as well as pairing well with minimalist sneaker, they’ll also sit handsomely with a pair in soft pink suede.

Neutral Knitwear

The words ‘beige’ and ‘knitwear’, when used in conjunction, bring about mental images of cardigan-wearing septuagenarians, but it’s a look that goes beyond pureed food. Neutral knitwear, be it a cashmere-blend roll neck or zip-up polo shirt, is a key layering component of male wardrobe. Use yours to create high-low looks, whether that’s with grey trousers and minimalist sneakers or relaxed mid-wash jeans and an overcoat.

White Sneakers

Saying the white sneaker is an essential part of the modern wardrobe is like stating the sky is blue or that a bear does its business in the woods. Damn obvious. However, stripped-back kicks truly come into their own in the case of neutral outfits that whisper rather than scream style. Stick to premium leather and minimal stitching (which often dirties their appearance far quicker) to always have a solid foundation on which to build.

Olive Overshirt

War, huh, what is it good for? Absolutely nothing. Except, perhaps, 75 per cent of what you wear on a day-to-day basis. Take the overshirt, for example. While more a product of workwear, rendered in army green it’s arguably the perfection transitional piece: offering all the warmth of a flannel shirt with the tailored sharpness of a field jacket.

Hello, darlings! Gracie Opulanza here, ready to dive into a topic that’s as snug as it is stylish—leggings for men! Yes, you heard it right. It’s time for the gents to embrace the comfort and dashing appeal of this form-fitting marvel. Now, before you raise your eyebrows, let me take you on a sartorial journey where comfort meets luxury, and humor meets fashion.

A Snug Fit from History

Remember the times when legends like Queen and Kiss strutted on stage in tight lycra? They were not just making music; they were making fashion statements. If Freddie Mercury could rock those stretchy sensations with flamboyance, why can’t the modern man? It’s not just about reliving the rock star era; it’s about redefining it. Wearing leggings today is like giving a nod to a rhythmic past while tuning the strings to the comfort of the present.

Why Leggings? Here’s the Stretch

Men’s leggings, or ‘meggings’ as they are affectionately known, are no longer confined to the realms of gym wear. They have strutted onto the high streets with a vengeance. Why, you ask? Because who wouldn’t want to feel like they’re wearing a cloud while looking sharp as a tack? Leggings for men are like a secret weapon; under the radar but completely transformative. They hug the legs like a second skin, yet give you enough stretch to perform a spontaneous high-kick should the occasion arise.

Dressing Up the Meggings

Now, let’s get to the meat of the matter—how to wear these bad boys with style. First off, balance is key. If you’re going snug down below, keep it relaxed on top. A loose tunic or a smart, longline blazer can be your best friends. They not only cover the essentials but also add an effortless cool to your overall look.

For a casual day out, why not pair your leggings with a chunky knit sweater? It’s like telling the world, “Yes, I’m this comfortable, and I make it look good.” If you’re venturing into the wild, urban or otherwise, a pair of rugged boots and a denim jacket over your leggings will have you looking like an off-duty model ready to conquer the streets.

Colors and Prints: The Wilder, The Better

While black leggings are every minimalist’s dream, don’t shy away from colors and prints. A splash of color or a bold pattern can elevate your leggings from undergarments to the star of the show. Think about it—a pair of azure blue leggings under a grey trench coat? You’re not just walking; you’re making a statement.

When Humor Meets Style

Now, gentlemen, let’s chat about the elephant in the room with a smile. Yes, leggings are form-fitting, and yes, they leave little to the imagination. But isn’t that just a way to show you’re comfortable in your own skin? Wearing leggings is like saying, “I’m here, I’m bold, and I’ve got the legs to prove it!” It’s about wearing confidence as your best accessory.

Final Stretch: Embrace the Comfort

In a world where fashion meets function, leggings for men are a testament to the evolving landscape of menswear. They are practical, they’re stylish, and they break the mold. So why not give them a whirl? Remember, it’s about stretching your style boundaries while keeping things snug and splendid.

So there you have it, my dear fashion-forward friends. Leggings for men are not just a passing trend; they are a lifestyle choice. They are about comfort that doesn’t compromise on style, about humor that walks hand in hand with high fashion. Step into some meggings and step up your fashion game. Because, after all, life’s too short to wear boring clothes!

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Hello, darlings! Gracie here, bringing a sprinkle of glamour and a dash of humor to your style diaries. Today, let’s dive into the luxurious world of chunky gold chains. For someone who lives and breathes an opulent lifestyle, nothing says “statement piece” quite like a bold, gold necklace. So, let’s unlock the treasure trove of styling these magnificent adornments.

The Midas Touch in Everyday Attire

Imagine stepping out for a casual brunch; instead of the usual, why not spice up your outfit with a thick gold chain? Picture this: a simple white tee, distressed jeans, a blazer, and our star accessory—the chunky gold chain. It’s not just a necklace; it’s your ticket to turning heads. It’s like adding a sprinkle of fairy dust—suddenly, you’re not just dressed, you’re dressed to kill! Get your Stetson hat on.

Power Dressing for the Boardroom

Who says meetings have to be dull? Ladies, it’s time to channel your inner boss with a touch of gold. Swap out that predictable pearl necklace for a chunky gold chain over a sleek, tailored suit. It’s a nod to tradition with a wink at rebellion—perfect for making a powerful statement without uttering a word. You’re not just at the table; you’re leading the discussion. Wear it like Pharrell Lanscilo Williams.

Evening Elegance: Gold’s Night Out

Evening events are my playground, and a chunky gold chain is my swing. Elevate a little black dress with a gold piece that’s as bold as it is beautiful. Think of it as your golden hour, where every turn you make catches the light and all eyes are on you. It’s not just an accessory; it’s a conversation starter, a room silencer, a showstopper.

Summer Fun with Gold

Why should winter have all the fun with layers? Summer is a fantastic time to showcase your golden flair. A flowy maxi dress paired with a hefty gold chain is a match made in style heaven. It’s like wearing a sunset around your neck—glowing, warm, and endlessly enchanting. Add a wide-brimmed hat and sunglasses, and you’re not just dressed for summer; you’re dressed for a summer romance novel.

For the Gents: Stepping Up the Gold Game

Gentlemen, don’t let us have all the fun. Take a leaf out of Pharrell’s book and rock a chunky gold chain with your summer attire. Pair it with a denim shirt, tight leggings, and yes, even a cowboy hat. It’s a look that says, ‘I’m here, I’m bold, and I’ve got style in spades.’ So, ditch that inner rebel rapper and embrace the bling.

Mix, Match, and Layer

One of the beauties of gold chains is their versatility. Don’t hesitate to mix metals or add layers of different lengths. A stack of gold chains can transform a simple outfit into a masterpiece of textures and highlights. It’s like being an artist, and your canvas is your neckline.

Caring for Your Gold—Keep the Sparkle Alive!

Loving your gold means taking care of it. Remember, a clean chain is a dazzling chain. Regular polishing and safe storage will keep your gold as radiant as your personality. It’s not just maintenance; it’s preserving the magic.

Signing Off with a Sparkle

So, there you have it, my fabulous fashionistas—a guide to styling chunky gold chains with a pinch of panache and a splash of Gracie’s sparkle. Whether you’re stepping out for a coffee or stepping onto the red carpet, remember: a chunky gold chain isn’t just an accessory; it’s a statement. Wear it with confidence, wear it with joy, and most importantly, wear it like no one else can—because, darling, that’s the only way to wear gold.

Until next time, keep shining, keep smiling, and keep strutting your fabulous selves!

 

Recently myself, photographer Alex Natt and Carl and Oliver from Rubato (above) spent a day vintage shopping in New York. It was a lot of fun, and also I think interesting for those that are fairly new to vintage, or can find the process frustrating. 

We all ended up buying something but not that much, and rarely what we set out for. Carl was not expecting to pick up a Ralph Lauren Purple Label jacket, for example, and would never have put it on a shopping list at the beginning of the day. But when he found one in beautiful wool and silk – at a good price and a perfect fit (below) – he still ended up getting it. 

To me this reflects the breadth of opportunity with vintage. For you’re not just shopping one season but dozens of them, from different eras, with different silhouettes and a greater range of materials. We hadn’t ever seen this cloth before and as RL materials are usually exclusive, it was always likely to be unusual. 

Serendipity like this is a big attraction of vintage shopping. You’re more likely to be taken by surprise, and the clothes you’re looking at won’t be ones you’ve already seen online, or in that season’s advertising and all over social media.  

My purchase was similarly unexpected. 

I’ve always had a weakness for suede jackets – bombers, overshirts and blazers. But I’ve never owned a western-style suede jacket, and instinctively thought it would be too unusual for me. 

When we visited Front General, Alex pointed out one in a roughout-suede hanging on the wall (always dangerous) and I tried it on. The cut really worked, and the heavy suede was beautiful – rugged and thick, with a shape that had been moulded by many years of wear. 

Of course, other brands sell modern versions and I might have seen one there (eg RRL or Buck Mason). But I wouldn’t have had the same open-minded approach. For me at least, vintage engenders this receptive attitude, ready to try anything and be inspired. And accept you might walk away empty-handed as well.

We tried on a lot of things we didn’t buy, and wouldn’t necessarily have seen in a regular shop. Above, for example, Carl is trying on an old Polo polo coat and I’m wearing a scarlet duffle coat, also Ralph Lauren. 

That red rather overwhelmed me, particularly in the long length of those old Ralph ones – but it did mean I knew my size in case I ever saw one on eBay, and I now have a search set up. 

In fact, something else I tried worked out very well in that way. The tassel loafers I featured recently on PS were a model I originally saw at Crowley’s but were just a size too big. I looked on eBay, and luckily found a pair in the right size. 

For what it’s worth, I would never do that with something that was available in a store. It will always be more expensive of course, but the owner deserves the margin for sorting through mountains of stuff, paying the rent to display the best things, and then being there for me to try on and buy. 

Perhaps that’s a luxury of having the money do so, but I do think people should take responsibility for their actions in that way if they have the money. If they don’t, the shops will disappear.

Oliver’s experience was a little different, in that he didn’t find anything inspiring, but he had been looking for some US Army chinos for a long time, and found a decent pair at 10ft Single (above).

It’s easy to feel like this kind of military clothing is everywhere, and so vintage is actually not that variable. It’s always the same field jackets, varsity jackets and denim jackets. But often that means you just need to seek out a different kind of vintage shop – like Crowley, which has such a huge range of Ralph Lauren and similarly inspired clothing. The popularity of vintage means more of these shops or sites are springing up. 

Plus eBay has more variety than you could possibly hope for. Lucas has been on a deep dive into Giorgio Armani for the past couple of years, and now has a crazy knowledge of all the labels, periods and materials. Perhaps he’ll open his own Armani-and-similar-eighties-tailoring shop some day. 

Alex, the fourth member of that group, is also a good example of different tastes. He’s more into modern vintage and knows all the history of the outdoor brands like Eddie Bauer and North Face. 

It’s great shopping with a friend like that, as they’ll point out and tell you about pieces you’d never consider. He didn’t buy anything the day we all went, but he had bought a US parka earlier in the week, and that was the budget blown.

Vintage is not for everyone. I’ve spoken to quite a few readers about this in recent years, and it’s not suited to those that aren’t into clothes enough to talk about them and research them. Perhaps like someone who enjoys cooking, but isn’t going to spend the time talking to their local butcher or travelling to a farmers market. 

I’m still very much a novice, but in the past five years I’ve bought many of my favourite pieces of clothing vintage, and found it incredibly interesting and enjoyable. I hope this first-hand experience helps explain a little where the joy comes from. 

Rubato are in London for their next trunk show from May 23-25, being hosted by Taillour at their atelier.

For more on vintage, see:

Shops in New York visited:

• Stock Vintage
• Church Street Surplus
• Stella Dallas
• 10ft Single
• Sean Crowley
• Front General
• Rugged Road

Also recommended: Raggedy Threads

You’ve probably heard the saying “When you know, you know.” But how do you know you found the one? Relationships, we can probably all agree, are a tricky business at the best of times.

Getting from a swipe right on Tinder, to making it past the first date and then sailing into ‘official relationship’ territory, well it can all feel a lot like running a gauntlet that you’ve been incredibly poorly prepared for.

But, if you do manage to make it successfully into coupledom — slaps on backs and clinking glasses from all of us here – the next relationship question you’ll need to ask yourself is this; are they really ‘The One’?

Now regardless of whether you’re onboard with the idea that there’s just one single person out there, among the 7.6 billion people on Earth, that you’re destined to spend the rest of your life with, the fact remains that some people are just better suited to each other. Here’s a cute Answers post talking about that magic.

It’s also true that, once you’ve presumably found this adorably compatible creature, knowing whether you’re meant to be together long-term, if she loves you, or something akin to lusty convenience, is again, well, a bit tricky.

Do you feel calm, at peace, and genuinely happy? That is a great indicator.

“When you’ve found The One, the relationship just flows. Things are fairly easy,” says the admirably optimistic Jeannie Assimos, Chief of Advice at online dating site eHarmony. “You understand each other’s viewpoints and perceptions, and either accept them or feel the same way. If a relationship is characterized by conflict, strife or butting heads on a regular basis, that likely tells you the compatibility is not there.”

“A huge indicator that you’ve found The One? It’s just easy being with this person,” she says. “You feel at home, totally comfortable, and are able to be yourself. Paying attention to how we feel when we’re around someone is important. Do you feel calm, at peace, and genuinely happy? That is a great indicator.”

Trusting your gut feeling, however, can feel like a leap of faith. So how about a checklist of science-backed indicators instead?

Luckily, there’s a cohort of top psychologists and relationship experts out there who have made it their mission to uncover the complexities and subtleties of love’s effect on the brain. From changes in your vocabulary to tell-tale Instagram behavior, here’s the expert take on whether you’re dealing with a fling or the real thing.

Your Brain Changes

A sure-fire way to indicator of a relationship being the real deal is that you don’t experience that ‘out of sight, out of mind’ phenomenon when your partner isn’t around. Instead, you’ll tend to think about them a lot – almost all the time, in fact.

Love and genuine attachment actually alter the biochemical reactions taking place in your brain

A 2005 study carried out by researchers at New York’s Stony Brook University suggests this is because real love and genuine attachment actually alter the biochemical reactions taking place in your brain.

When you think about The One, you’ll get a surge of happiness-boosting neurotransmitter dopamine plus a lighting up of the brain’s reward centers.

All of that makes us feel warm and fuzzy, which is why we’re more likely to keep indulging in these happy thoughts regularly. Especially in the earlier stages of a strong relationship, when the effects are at their most potent.

Your Pronouns Change

As Assimos quite rightly points out: “The One is not going to try and change you. They’ll accept you for who you are, and become your biggest supporter in life.”

Those who feel deeply connected to their partner are more likely to use plural pronouns such as ‘we’ and ‘us’

Broadly speaking, that’s true. However, one way in which they will inevitably, albeit unintentionally, change you is by influencing your daily pronoun use.

In a 2002 study, psychologists at the University of Texas at Austin, found that those who feel deeply connected to their partner are more likely to use plural pronouns such as ‘we’ and ‘us’, rather than the singular ‘I’ or ‘me’.

The findings have since been confirmed by every person who’s ever had to attend a couples’ dinner as a singleton. And we feel for you.

You’re Willing To Fight

Old Willy Shakes was right on the money when he declared the course of true love to be an often rocky road. But as research psychologist Luis Rubén de Borbón observes, a willingness to fight for the success of your relationship is what really sets The One apart. Even more so than how ‘compatible’ two people might be on paper.

A successful relationship… hangs on by the sheer will power and want to stay in a relationship.

“Everyone who is unhappy [in their relationship] naturally blames it on the facade of compatibility,” he writes. “They fail to realize and comprehend that a successful relationship does not hinge its posterity on how alike you are, instead it hangs on by the sheer willpower and want to stay in a relationship.”

Leading life coach, Olga Levancuka, agrees: “You need to keep in mind that finding The One doesn’t mean finding a version of yourself who shares exactly the same passions or meets your exact expectations,” she says.

“It means finding someone who is prepared to make your relationship work and you’re prepared to do the same. Relationships aren’t all about romantic getaways and butterflies, they can be hard work and you both have to be prepared to build solid foundations.”

You Happily Sacrifice

As Levancuka describes, if you’ve met The One, you’ll both be cool with making certain sacrifices for each other, even if historically, you’ve always been more about looking out for yourself as number one.

Psychologists call these ‘costly commitment signals’ – when we carry out acts or behave in ways that are likely to ‘cost’ us either in terms of our time, money or our emotions, simply because we want to help our significant other.

A 2015 study carried out by psychologists at Japan’s Kobe University, found that relationships where this kind of behavior was either absent or infrequent, were less likely to go the distance.

You Don’t Overshare

Those folks who post loved-up couple selfies on the regular? They’re likely trying their best to compensate for a bond that, in all reality, just isn’t there. According to Levancuka, if your partner isn’t plastering your relationship all over their social media feeds, it’s actually a strong indicator that all’s well in Couplesville.

If they are oversharing it could be a sign of insecurity

“Unfortunately, social media is now an essential part of our daily lives, to the point where every moment needs to be documented and recorded. Happy couples who take their relationship seriously, however, tend not to share much information about their relationship online,” she explains.

“It’s perfectly normal for your partner to share the occasional picture of you, but happy couples are busy enjoying each other’s company in the present. This means that they’re not going to stop enjoying each other’s company just to post a status or snap a selfie.

“If they are oversharing it could be a sign of insecurity, or that they’re more concerned about how you add to their social image rather than being focused on how you enrich their day-to-day life.”

You’ve Polled Your Friends and Family

According to psychologists, what those closest to us think of our partner can have a huge influence on how a relationship turns out.

When you’ve found The One, you want everyone in your life to meet them

A 2014 study also found that since those around us can have such an impact on our love lives, it’s common to want to ‘marshall support’ for your budding romance.

So, if you’ve not only introduced your partner to your friends and family but also found yourself soliciting feedback from all parties concerned while simultaneously highlighting all your partner’s virtues, it’s highly likely you’ve found The One – especially if everyone gelled on the night.

“When you’ve found The One, you want everyone in your life to meet them, and get to know them,” says Assimos. “You are genuinely excited about the prospect of being with this person, and you’re no longer are looking around to see what else is out there.”

They Are Your #1 Cheerleader

According to famed psychological researcher Dr. John Gottman, supporting each other’s ‘life dreams’, aka your long-term goals and ambitions, is a key component of a healthy and lasting relationship.

Couples who focused on building something together, whether it be a business or working towards a shared goal, tended to stay together the longest.

For Gottman, The One should “look up to you, admire you, and respect you.” In other words, they’ll become your biggest champion and an ever-reliable source of support and encouragement.

Levancuka takes the same view: “The happiest relationships are built on mutual respect, so even if you both have different interests you want to pursue, The One will be there to encourage and support you.”

You’ll find yourself heavily invested in helping to build them up, too. In fact, Gottman’s years of research found that couples who focused on building something together, whether it be a business or working towards a shared goal, tended to stay together the longest.

Bedroom Gymnastics Isn’t Your Only Hobby

Naturally, sex plays a huge part in a healthy relationship, and being physically attracted to your partner as well as enjoying their company is a vital checkpoint.

If all your plans somehow incorporate time alone where you might be able to have sex then the alarm bells should start ringing.

But if sex is the only thing you do together when you’ve managed to carve out some downtime, we’re very sorry to point out that this may not be a good sign.

“Sex is great and you should be having lots of it, but it’s important to build a stronger, emotional bond beyond that,” says Levancuka. “If all your plans somehow incorporate time alone where you might be able to have sex then the alarm bells should start ringing. With The One, you need to be able to have fun around each other without the need for sex.”

You’re In Sync

“When you’re synced with your partner you are fully present with that person – mind and body. In a romantic relationship, it’s important to feel connected to someone in this way. When that connection is there, we feel seen, heard, valued, respected, and cherished,” says Levancuka.

But if you thought this whole business of synchronicity was more pseudoscience than anything concrete, a 2016 paper published by research psychologists is here to prove you wrong.

As Levancuka quite rightly asserts: “Scientists have found that some couples are so in tune that their brains begin to work in sync. That means they’ve reached a state in which their nervous systems are ticking over in harmony, helping them to read each other’s thoughts and emotions.”

According to the researchers, just sitting next to The One for 15 minutes is enough to sync up.

Now you’ve got the checklist, better start paying a closer eye to what’s going on up top.